Applied Tantra

Communication, Growth and Tantra

By Lalita Joy
Communication is part of the web of our interconnectedness and relationship with each other through relating and expressing. It is important to convey your truth, with respect to someone else’s. Many problems in the world today stem from a lack of understanding of each other. Communication differs from person to person based on their individuality and experiences. My personal study of tantra has invoked inner growth and inspired my authentic voice in which I present to the outer world.  Here I will describe how I learned what works best for me on my journey through the practice of tantra.
I value my heart and mind connection. These areas work symbiotically, meeting in the middle where the conjunction materializes through voice and hearing.  If I find difficulty establishing this, I reevaluate my intentions towards interacting with others until there is clarity. I apply this for all conversations and meetings; business, personal, virtual media, and even difficult and sensitive subject matter. Our heart energy is very powerful and healing; in this sense, it has the capacity to change a situation from negative to positive. The mind helps shape ideas inspired by that energy.
I continuously make a concentrated effort to reinforce this pattern and to my surprise, my biggest guide was surprise – my own inner voice. Most of my life I was really hard on myself. I was very strict with expectations and shamed myself when I did not meet them. One day while in meditation I could not relax out of fear that I was doing it wrong. I was ridden with anxiety. When I finally calmed down and relaxed my mind I had a revelation; I needed to have compassion for my personal processes. This was pivotal in my journey. I try to recognize the tone of my self-talk and I continue to flesh out the unpleasantness every day. Most importantly I learned how I wanted to receive compassionate energy from myself. Through this understanding, I revised the way I flowed energy to other people and the way I  presented my truth to the outer world. My goal is to not only give my truth but to do so with patience and compassion.
Here is an exercise that I use to help support and facilitate this connection by using tantric breath and intention.
1.) Find a quiet space in solitude and place one hand over your heart.
2.) Close your eyes.
3.) Breathe in through the nose, drawing into the place that your hand is resting on over the heart. Draw the breath up the center of your body to the very top of your head. Breath in fully. Once you reach the top visualize bright white light, exhale and let your entire body feel relaxed.
4.) Repeat this process several times and remember to visualize the heart and mind connecting.
As we know, communication is a very personal thing. Continuous inner work and self-adjustment can lead to an easier flow of connections and problem-solving based on your authentic truth. I acknowledge that I do not mention the “listening” component in this blog. It IS equally as important than speaking and sharing. I will save that topic for another entry where I can fully focus on that, as I have done here.

Returning to Love During Lockdown: Couples Sessions

Right now, as so many of us are social distancing and stuck in quarantine, there is a huge opportunity for your romantic relationship to blossom or fall apart.

The question we must ask ourselves is:

How do we emerge out of this period stronger, more in love, and more connected than ever as a couple?

After working with hundreds of couples around the globe I know the key to growing your relationship is to prioritize it and one another as you did during your honeymoon phase. And, you could absolutely use some support and gentle ass-kicking to stay focused on what really matters.

To make sure you seize this moment together, I created a new program called “Returning to Love During Lockdown”

Think of it like doing a couple’s retreat for your partnership… resulting in sacred intimacy tools to expand your connection and new ways of playing and falling in love with one another all over again… from the comfort of your own home.

In Returning to Love During Lockdown, you’ll learn:

  • High-level communication skills that will reignite the romantic spark in your relationship and invite you to fall in love all over again
  • Powerful sacred intimacy tools that will bring back the juice to your relationship
  • Connection tools so that you can avoid arguing and do real healing and growth-work together

I am not going to sugarcoat it: things are stressful right now. The pull to be on some media, excessively watch the news, or just lay around and do nothing is STRONG, I know.

And if you don’t have the push you need to change this (or the skillsets!), you can easily spend this precious time arguing bitterly, only focusing on what isn’t working, ignoring your partner, or worse… breaking up.

Returning to Love During Lockdown is that space to drop in with partner, turn your phones off, and turn your bodies and your hearts back on.

Schedule your consultation today! Find out booking information here.



Online Sessions for a New Day!

Online Sessions for a New Day!

The world we once knew has changed. How has it affected you? How will you respond? This is a new day and online sessions will keep you in the safety of your own home as you prepare to re-emerge into society.

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“Nourish beginnings, let us nourish beginnings. Not all things are blest, but the seeds of all things are blest. The blessing is in the seed.” ~ Muriel Rukeyser

“Change can be scary, but you know what’s scarier? Allowing fear to stop you from growing, evolving, and progressing.” — Mandy Hale

“Each day is a new beginning, the chance to do with it what should be done and not to be seen as simply another day to put in time.” – Catherine Pulsifer

Hands, Tantra and Practice

Hands are two of the most magically recognized parts the body. As the late mathematician Bronowski quotes; “The hand is the cutting edge of the mind.” Some would also believe that it is the messenger for the heart and the soul.  If you think of it, the principals of Tantric healing are present within them. One is the giver, the other the receiver and they are connected by ourselves-our brain, our Will, and our body. We flow energy through them and allow them to work together as our Will projects them to.
There are different theories regarding the energy flow of our hands. Asian theories specify that the right hand is yang (giving) and left is yin (receiving). The Lewellyn Encyclopedia‘s definition of the “receptive” and “projective” hands differ based on which is dominant and non-dominant of the individual. Regardless of what theory we most resonate with, the point I make here is that just like Tantric study and practice of balancing polarities-the use of hands is a physical manifestation of this process. We can use one hand at a time when completing tasks and it works, but when we use both appendages of this nature, it can make things easier. We may balance more, carry more weight and/or withstand more pressure. If one carefully assesses their intention for studying the practical application of Tantric healing, they could see the symbolic connection. Why do we begin our study? We want to learn, how to manage and balance our energy within so that we can be our best selves in the world and attain our goals as efficiently possible.
We can experience the flow of energy through our hands by engaging in exercises that allow us to feel “giving” and “receiving” attributes. A very simple exercise is to rub your hands together and then hold them a few inches apart palms facing each other. This allows you to feel the energy you create from this motion. There are also ways to feel the difference between giving and receiving. An example of this is when we console others by  placing the “giving” hand on their back, as to allow them to feel support flowing through the palms. A way to experience receiving energy is to place this hand on something that is living, a partner, child or perhaps a pet and then take that same hand and feel the air. Take note of the differences.
One does not have to be an energy worker to appreciate the hands as they are here work with us. They are also not something to take for granted as they fulfill many functions. A general appreciation will no doubt grant you the understanding one can accomplish through intentional use of them.

Meditation and Root Chakra

By Goddess Ashira  Meditation and Root Chakra
 Meditation and Root Chakr
In our frantic modern world, meditation is becoming more and more popular as people search for ways to relax, de-stress, accelerate their spiritual development and enhance their quality of life. meditation and root chakra
The words hold so much power and combined with the receptive relaxed state, guided meditation can create dramatic change in one’s life.
Meditation is an incredibly enjoyable, healthy and inspiring way to achieve inner peace, and guided meditations are, quite simply, the easiest way to meditate.
Traditional unguided meditation techniques, while wonderful in their own way, do require some effort on your part. It’s your job to keep your mind focussed and as clear as possible. In the midst of the business of the day it could be really hard to relax and let go of thinking. By employing touch, sound, smell and overall calm ambience, tantric meditation is much easier way to access this state of deep relaxation that leads to bliss.
While you are in this deeply relaxed state of mind, your subconscious is open to positive suggestions, and your guide will use this time to take you on an inner journey that is designed to improve one or more aspects of your life. For example, a guided meditation might be tailored towards personal empowerment and positive thinking. Another might focus on emotional healing or spiritual development. You might be taken on a guided journey to unleash your full potential, or you may choose to go on a guided meditation journey simply for the sheer pleasure of experiencing profoundly deep relaxation.
As you can now see, a guided meditation can be an experience that is not only relaxing, but one that enhances your sense of self, that transforms your perspective in positive ways, and that inspires you to live your life to the fullest.
It’s an effortless and very enjoyable experience that results in deep relaxation, elimination of stress and a heightened appreciation of life.
Come to one of my sessions to experience a deeply nurturing, grounding and transformational experience! Looking forward to seeing you and meanwhile here is my gift to you.

Kundalini Energy for Manifestation of Intention

By Enoch Tan

Kundalini Energy is one of the most underutilized energies for manifesting prosperity. This energy when focused correctly can be used to bring love, light, prosperity and even Spirit into your life. Kundalini is the sacred life force of ethereal fire within you that moves through your chakra system. When you channel Kundalini, you can imbue power into your manifestation of desires. Remember that prosperity is an energy itself and the energy of Kundalini can be converted into the energy of prosperity in reality.

The physical dimensional planes were first constructed in order to give us a single moment of awareness. Prior to this, God and We (as an extension of our creator,) experienced all things in totality. The physical planes with their time and space qualities, gave God, as well as all other souls, an opportunity to experience a single moment, of anything. When we look at a blooming rose, we see the beauty of it in that single moment instead of experiencing all it ever was, all it is and all it will ever be.

What a gift! How excited souls were to first experience this wonderful gift. Souls found that incarnating on physical planes also gave them a rare opportunity to isolate and engage their spiritual growth, learning and experience. It was never conceived by our creator that our free will, so generously given, would extend to harming or hurting one another. In God, there is no consciousness of sin. There is only perfection. We are all here to experience who we really are in this world. Who we really are is God in form.

Soon souls got lost in the wheel of Karma, and forgot who they were, lifetime after lifetime of paying debts. Yet man was never supposed to experience physical life detached from their source. God did give us free will, but God never sent souls to the physical plane without a lifeline. We are always connected to God,The Source, even though we may lose awareness of that connection. Being more connected to God means being more aware.

Gaining awareness is the path of spirituality and life progress

Just as a baby is first connected to and nourished by his mother through the umbilical, each soul is connected to their creator through a similar energy cord, which raises the Kundalini, and can be just as nourishing. Kundalini is your life-blood connection to the creation of your physical experience. Without it, you wander through physical reality a victim, instead of a creator of your own destiny. You create your reality with the power of Kundalini. It is the Source Energy from which all things flow and consist.

The fact that sex is such an electrical surge of energy, both inwardly and outwardly, should be of some note. How could anyone not realize that all the energy expelled during sex actually had another purpose other than release? You can use sexual energy to create magic in your life.

Kundalini is sexual energy. It is the driving force of all life and achievement. It is what motivates us to be, do and have anything we desire. All successful people have their sexual energy channeled in some way towards goals. Electrical magnetism and that which creates physical attraction is the pull of your Kundalini Energy. How sad it is that many people on the planet spend their entire sexual experiences, and their lives, without ever raising their Chi, or without ever touching the divine.

Kundalini Energy is meant to be used as a pass key to Heaven. It is the method to reconnect with our creator. Spiritual energy and sexual energy are actually the same energy in different slightly different forms. More of it means more of life. The huge burst of energy expelled during sex is electromagnetically charged enough to pass through the spiritual planes, connect with your higher self and on a very real level, plan the remainder of your life.

People with a desire for life are the ones that thrive and have a future. Those who lose their sexual drive are the ones that lose further grip on life and all that it contains. The key to living life to the fullest and attaining your dreams and desires is to enjoy living and doing what you love. Life attracts more life.

When you learn to raise this energy with a sex partner, it takes it to a whole new level, and can be a very powerful manifesting tool by attaching a thought to the energy just before its release, or just before you orgasm. The Druids called this Sex Magic, and it can be very powerful, especially if you and your partner attach the same thought. Your thoughts have power to manifest when they are clothed with emotion. Kundalini, sexual energy, desire and life force are one. Use this along with intent.

It is also possible to raise it through meditation, without a partner and without sex. When the pathways along your spine are clear and the Kundalini can move through your body without being blocked, health quickly follows. To do this, you need to remove emotional blockages that prevent the energy from flowing freely through you.

Every blockage in each of the centers prevents energy from flowing freely to the other centers. The aim is to create space. Space is the primary requisite for building power.
In addition, when you raise the Kundalini, you connect both with your oversoul, your creator and your soul mate. This energy heals the connections with each of the above, and brings a joining of all of these parts of you. There is no better way to bring a soul mate into your life! Also, if you can raise your Kundalini, you most likely will be broadcasting it on a subconscious level, and find you suddenly become very much in demand with the others. This is the pull of Kundalini energy. It is attraction energy.

4 Main Benefits Of Tantra Massages On Your Body And Mind

Tantra is more a sort of spiritual formulation to several aspect of life, including sex, body, and mind relaxation and a few more. Its history is very long:  first originating in India, tantra is today popular also in western countries. What’s important to know about tantra is that it’s more likely to be an ensemble of different ways to approach life, so you can find tantra exercises for you body as well as tantra massages that help you find your ideal condition of wellness.

Energy-based Tantra Bodywork To Keep In Good Shape

Modern people struggle to find their emotional balance: life tasks are often too complicated or too many and this leads to stress, disappointment and fatigue, not only from a physical point of view but also from a mental point of view. That’s where tantra massages can come really helpful to rescue energy and make everything work in the best way.

So, let’s see here the main benefits of tantra massages:tantra massage

  1. Relaxation: human beings need to reach relaxation in order to accomplish all of their daily life duties. Hand-based massages can stimulate precise points of the body that can re-activate their inner energy.

  2. Healing effects: tantra massages is also proven to bring evident healing effects to everyone. All forms of massages are, somehow, therapeutic. Tantra principles ensure a high-level healing which eliminates certain forms of diseases, like blockages that are responsible for lack of vitality, youthfulness and energy.

  3. From a psychological point of view, tantra massages can help find own self-confidence and emotional balance. Often times people live under the weight of stressful situations: tantra massages are proven to awake personal outcomes and improve self-confidence.

  4. Healing of sexual dysfunctions: we all know that the Indian culture has a very long tradition in sexual remedies. Well, tantra massages are undoubtedly an effective solution to release sexual blockages and awaken sexual energy.

Mind Relaxation In Your Free Time

You can always think to match your tantra massage therapy with some pleasant free time entertainments. For example, online video games and casino games represent two great ideas to fulfill your free time, while giving yourself an enjoyable gaming experience.

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In particular, you can find “no download slots”. Consider that today many online casinos offer a number of free games that you can play without to use real money: the smart side of these games is that you do not have to download any casino files in order to play!

Why Are Tantra Techniques Used For Relaxation?

Always living in the present day, people in the western countries have begun to feel the need to find their time and relax their body and mind. This situation facilitated the diffusion of tantric techniques in the rest of the world, as well. The fact is that tantric massages activate certain body points that under stimulation can, on their turn, activate mind centers and help release the tension.

Another excellent reason why tantra is having such a large diffusion and success even outside the Indian culture is because of its benefits on senses. One of the goals of tantric massages is to create balance between body and mind and between each single person and the entire universe. According to the oriental philosophy, the human soul risks being lost without correct balance between body and mind.

Love is another pillar of the Indian culture: so , expect that tantra can help you re-discover how to love and how to handle feelings, love stories and passion. Thanks to specific techniques, tantra opens for you new "doors" to the creation of many new possibilities that most people still ignore and that can allow you to live in a happy way, forgetting blockages and negative feelings, while enjoying the freedom of soul every time that you feel loved and you feel to love someone.

Energy Healing 101: Pranic, Tantric, and Reiki

By Arjan Van Hemert

If you’re seriously interested in knowing about Energy Healing, you need to think beyond the basics. This informative article takes a closer look at things you need to know about Energy Healing.

You have probably come across exotic-sounding terms such as “chakra”, “prana”, “aura”, and “tantra” in your course of reading books on spirituality, sex, and healing in the New Age literature section of the bookstore. But what’s the real scoop behind these exotic vocabularies?

Are All Energy Healings the Same?

Chakra or energy center is a term used in Pranic healing, an ancient Hindu system of energy healing. “Prana” means life energy. “Aura” is another terminology traced to Pranic healing. Aura is a non-physical body that consists of energy, which exists along with our physical body. The aura that covers our body is said to have seven layers pertaining to the physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual aspects of an individual as manifested by energy. Studying the color and thickness of auras give ideas on the state of health of individuals. Six colors are associated with aura and interpreted into six personalities. These colors are all present in an individual but one or two are more pronounced

Green – ambitious achiever

Blue – spiritual peacemaker

White – unconventional chameleon Red – activist

Orange – creative communicator

Violet – psychic

Although Tantra is popularly associated with the peculiar practice of sex and spirituality, it is another method of energy healing. It comes from the word “tan” which means to spread or expand. The concept of connectedness is a recurring theme in Tantric writings on sex and spirituality. As a method of healing, spirituality and sex figure prominently. It is presupposed that the union of man and woman can reach spiritual levels during orgasm, which removes the body and mind off collected impurities. These impurities being negative energies can in turn manifest as physical illnesses.

Unlike Pranic and Tantric healings, which have Hindu origins, Reiki originated from Japan. It is relatively younger than Pranic and Tantric healings having been rediscovered in the early 1900’s. Reiki stands for universal energy, an energy brought forth by higher intelligence. Students of Reiki are taught how to tap this energy to heal physical, emotional, and mental illnesses.

Although Pranic, Tantra, and Reiki are all systems of energy healing, they differ in the type of energy tapped for healing: life energy, sexual energy, and universal energy respectively.

The concepts of the connectedness of mind, body, and spirit; the connection of individuals to all living and nonliving things around them and to the universe; and how energy impacts physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being are some of the salient similarities of these three healing methods.

Why Do People Turn to Energy Healing?

The best time to learn about Energy Healing is before you’re in the thick of things. Wise readers will keep reading to earn some valuable Energy Healing experience while it’s still free.

Pranic, Tantric, and Reiki are considered alternative methods of healing. In spite of the availability and relative accessibility of modern medicine, how come more and more people are being drawned to them? Here are some possible reasons:

· Energy healing worked where modern medicine failed.

For several reasons both explainable and unexplainable, modern medical treatment failed to heal ailments and conditions in several if not many persons. Research or data may not be able to support this statement. But for the families of the dying as well as for the dying patient, they would take the risk of using alternative methods ranging from herbals and organics, faith healers, witch doctors, and New Age healing techniques just to be get well.

· People perceive modern medicine to be isolating.

Medical treatments are oftentimes focused on the disease and its causative agent, which can make a patient feel isolated and treated like a mere host of the disease. Although recent developments in hospital practice are gradually promoting the holistic treatment of a patient, the perception still persists. Unlike in energy healing, since energy and spirituality are intimately linked, the patient feels that all aspects of his health are being attended to.

· Energy healing is non-obtrusive and natural thus it is safer.

Repeated surgical procedures are physically and emotionally traumatic for most patients. It is but a logical and attractive option to both patient and families to look for less stressful health interventions. Moreover, with the rising popularity of New Age religions, going natural is the way to go.

· Energy healing is a good way of relieving stress.

Meditation is part and parcel of energy healing methods and this is an added come-on for highly stressed people. Moreover, sophisticated equipment is not required thus it becomes all the more convenient for students and future students of energy healing.

The battle between alternative healing and mainstream medicine continues as both present the benefits of their approach. But in the final analysis, what matters is the restoration of good health.

Sometimes it’s tough to sort out all the details related to this subject, but I’m positive you’ll have no trouble making sense of the information presented above.

Couple’s Workshop in Euguene 9/20/16

Couple’s Heart Activation Workshop

with Goddess Kanixa

When: September 24, 2016

Where: Injoy Wellness Center  775 Monroe St. Eugene, OR 97402

Time: 2:00pm-6:00pm

Join us for this heart opening couples workshop!

You will experience connection, rejuvenation, peace, love and bliss along this journey with your beloved at your side. This Workshop will include a sacred Cacao Ceremony, guided meditation, tantric breath work, sensual touch with your partner, Thai massage and Ecstatic Dance! The Intuitive Tantra techniques are sensual yet non-sexual allowing you to explore the sweetness of sensual intimacy to deepen your heart connection with your beloved from a pure space. Reignite passion within your relationship, explore new ways to see the beauty within yourself and your beloved, and feel joy flowing throughout your entire being.

This is a NON-sexual Tantra workshop, also known as White Tantra techniques. During this workshop your heart will be activated by love and bliss to allow you to connect deeper with your beloved. Enter a space of peace, healing and purity to explore new ways to see the beauty within yourself and in your love. This is a safe space to express genuine loving touch and connection with your partner. Learn to value sensual touch and the power of breathing with your love as one, gazing into each others eyes and feeling sweetness flowing between your hearts.

Come ready to play, enter Zen, awaken your heart, to flow and celebrate the union of you and your beloved!

Ceremonial grade Cacao from Ecuador will be lovingly brewed along with herbs from the Eugene local Bohemian Apocethary and the Penetrate the Heart Elixir from Five Flavor Herbs.

Penetrate the Heart Information:
Enhances amorous feelings while supporting a healthy digestive and cardiovascular system.

Ingredients: Chinese Hawthorn fruit [Shan Zha], Damiana aerial parts, Elderberry fruit, Horny Goat Weed aerial parts [Yin Yang Huo], Bitter Orange fruit [Zhi Shi], Albizia julibrissin flower [He Huan Hua], Cacao seed, Cardamom seed, Grain and/or Cane Alcohol, Water, Vegetable Glycerin.

The Thai Massage portion will be lead by my beloved Thomas Moore before we end with a fun free flowing Ecstatic Dance.
Wear something comfortable and loose fitting. Please note: nudity is NOT allowed at this event. However, wearing a Sarang, swim suit top and bottoms, crop top is okay for the ladies! Bring a bottle of water plus 1-2 blankets and pillows to create a comfy space for you and your beloved.

Ticket info: The price per couple is $333
*This pays for you and your beloved partner’s admission to the workshop (total of 2 people).

We have room for 6 lovely couples to join us! That is a total of 12 people only. 🙂

LGBT Couples are welcome here!

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